I've just Laguna Beach on MTV.Rich brats...hmpffft...anyway back to what I'm planning to write.They show a scene where this group of girlfriends were talking about Jessica's boyfriend,Jason.Then Kristin was talking bad about Jason in front of Jessica and ended with "Jessica,I love you but I don't love your boyfriend".You should have seen the girl's face.It was really black la,like she almost wanna blow.

So why am I telling you all this.Because I strongly believe that even how close your relationship is with your friends.Please don't go to her/him and criticise their partner or hint to them your displeasure with their partner coz it's just plain rude,that's how I felt that is.Clearly your friend is in love,do you really think he or she will give you all smiles and just take it all in.Come on!I know some people want to think friendship before love,but honestly do people really subscribe to such. Honestly?

Ok ok I know,what if he or she is really fucked up.Then I would tell them what's neccessary when the time and situation sees the need for it.But you have to exercise restraint on what you say.Why restraint?Trust me,coz I saw myself in one two many instances where I get into trouble with what I say.

Ok ok point is,if I'm ever in love please don't criticise my boyfriend in front of me.As much of a nice person I am,I can't stand criticism.As high as my capacity to withstand shit,there's always a limit.I've never criticise my friends choice of partner though sometime I want to shout...What the hell...so I guess I expect the same.Reciprocity.Unless he's really a dumb ass jerk,liar,cheater,criminal...those extreme cases.But personality wise,lay it to me nicely.Remember restraint.Hell yeah.Restraint..

Friendship before love.I wished!

Hanim